6 Ways Women Can Flirt With Men

Fifty years ago, women could get pretty, go to a social event, meet a guy, date exclusively, and be married within 6 months all before the age of 21. In today’s world, where everyone is considering their options and women don’t need men financially, dating is much more competitive. Let’s just face it. Dating is work.

Many women aren’t waiting for a man to approach them. They approach men too. Some men find it attractive when a woman pursues. Some men think it’s too aggressive. Then, there are traditional women who would rather not pursue at all.

Should women approach men or not? There is no right or wrong answer to this question. Luckily, I’ve been able to find a healthy balance in the middle for the traditionalists and progressives. Approaching a man is not required. However, flirting is. Here’s how women get express interest without compromising their traditional values.

1. Eye Contact – Flirtingly gazing in a man’s eyes will get his attention without being too aggressive. When you notice him looking at you, look back for at least 3 seconds and no more than 5. You want him to notice you’re looking without thinking you’re weird. Sometimes you’ll have to do this 3 or 4 times before he gets the idea but it works and requires little effort on your part.

2. Smile – An old-fashioned smile goes a long way. Remember, men fear rejection just as much as women. When you smile, he is more comfortable

Fifty years ago, women could get pretty, go to a social event, meet a guy, date exclusively, and be married within 6 months all before the age of 21. In today’s world, where everyone is considering their options and women don’t need men financially, dating is much more competitive. Let’s just face it. Dating is work.

Many women aren’t waiting for a man to approach them. They approach men too. Some men find it attractive when a woman pursues. Some men think it’s too aggressive. Then, there are traditional women who would rather not pursue at all.

Should women approach men or not? There is no right or wrong answer to this question. Luckily, I’ve been able to find a healthy balance in the middle for the traditionalists and progressives. Approaching a man is not required. However, flirting is. Here’s how women get express interest without compromising their traditional values.

1. Eye Contact – Flirtingly gazing in a man’s eyes will get his attention without being too aggressive. When you notice him looking at you, look back for at least 3 seconds and no more than 5. You want him to notice you’re looking without thinking you’re weird. Sometimes you’ll have to do this 3 or 4 times before he gets the idea but it works and requires little effort on your part.

2. Smile – An old-fashioned smile goes a long way. Remember, men fear rejection just as much as women. When you smile, he is more comfortable